Not being an idiot.

Flying under the radar is not so much an art as it is simple common sense. Do not feel like you need to make a statement with the way you dress or present yourself. Its not cool its not edgy, and it will simply warrant unwanted suspicion. The only thing looking like a trouble maker dose is possibly make you attractive to chick that dig rebellious guys. What truly makes you of value is not conforming to fashion extremes in order to get laid. If you are really of value you should not express that in your every day life. Its a tough pill to swallow, but you must realizes that to be a true enigma you can not look like one. Also it is not cool to talk about the things covered in this forum in your everyday life. It will not make you friends. Tell people you just met that you pick locks and hack computer you will lose there trust and impress no one. If someone you meet is a member of this lifestyle they will make that known unto you. You will convert no one.

You will only breed distrust and suspicion.